Becoming Boundaried
Helping compassionate people reach new levels of peace, power, and joy — through the art of living boundaries.
Because Boundaries Can Be Fun!
With Therapist, Author, & Boundaries Guide, Molly Davis Moon
™
Hey there, compassionate friend.
Have you spent years keeping the peace for everybody else?
So many of us long to experience that same peace, love, and care for ourselves.
Buuut peace is awfully hard to find when we've been given a seriously flawed idea of what love and kindness are supposed to look like. 😮💨
This is why so many of us tend to:
😖 Feel guilty when we try to say no,
😵💫 Get taken advantage of due to our empathy and generosity (over and over again),
🥺 Frequently find ourselves stuck in one-sided, hurtful, or toxic relationships,
😭 Aaand quietly suffer with resentment, anxiety, depression, or burn-out (mainly from dealing with all of the above).
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If you can relate, you're not alone.
Many compassionate people struggle with these same things!
Words like "people-pleasing" or "codependent" may describe some of our symptoms, sure, but focusing on those issues doesn't provide the deeper healing and change we long for.
What can we do?
I've found our actual problem is simple.
The real problem is found within the architecture of our deepest boundaries.
As in, er, what boundaries? 🥴
Sound familiar?
The thing is, most of us are highly intelligent folks: naturally responsible, empathic, caring and resourceful.
In fact, a lot of us have made a literal career out of this -- and we're good at it, too!
We're counselors, teachers, physicians, social workers, chaplains, nurses, attorneys, non-profit leaders, accountants, physical therapists, coaches, healers, yoga teachers, engineers, scientists, artists, professors, librarians...
(the list goes on)!
In other words, WE are the folks other people come to for help with THEIR problems.
So... where do we go to get help with our own?
How can we do what we've never been taught?
No one has ever shown us the truth about boundaries for compassionate people.
No wonder we're totally confused about what and where our true boundaries are (much less how to integrate and embody them)!
Isn't it time for a change?
Hi there! I'm Molly,
the therapist-turned-boundaries-guide
and I'm so glad you're here!
You may already know me as an author 📘, podcaster 🎧, or as the “boundaries cartoonist” on social media 🎨 — but what I really do is help compassionate people (all around the globe) step into their power and reclaim their joy, their truth, and their energy through the art of our true boundaries.
This is not just theory. It’s the same method that completely changed my life — and has now helped thousands of others do the same.
Over the years, I’ve developed a unique approach to boundaries — one that goes faaaar beyond scripts or communication tips.
I call it The Becoming Boundaried Method™.
Molly in her ancestral home of Alaska
Introducing
The Becoming Boundaried Method
The Becoming Boundaried Method™ is a transformational process that helps compassionate people connect to the inner architecture of their boundaries — the energetic, emotional, and psychological structure that allows them to live in alignment with both their truth and their compassion.
Through a blend of nervous-system science, creative process, and deep inner work, my clients learn to stop abandoning themselves, ditch the guilt, and step into their true essence.
This is because our true boundaries are vibrant, living edges that protect our hearts, allow our energy move freely and our truth flow with ease.
This is where boundaries stop being a script we recite and start becoming the expansive edges of our being.
Where boundaries become the inner architecture of your peace, power, and presence
The Architecture of Becoming
Because I believe true transformation unfolds through the somatics of becoming (where awareness evolves from concept to embodiment).
Within The Becoming Boundaried Method, you’ll experience four organic processes that restore the rhythm of aliveness to your system.
These living ingredients are woven through every layer of our process, integrated so naturally that my clients often say their entire system begins to shift (without having to push or force).
Together, these ingredients combine to create a transformational cocoon that supports massive shifts, nourishes your compassionate heart, and refines the way you relate to yourself, your relationships, and your beautiful place in this world.
The 4 living ingredients we'll use to awaken the truth of your boundaries within you:
🌿 Ingredient 1. The Alchemy of Safety
Becoming boundaried guides our nervous system into what safety can look like from a place of thriving, not just surviving.
As we come home to ourselves, we grow a secure attachment to self, discovering what it feels like to truly show up for ourselves with abundance, love and compassion.
Now our inner child feels safe to emerge. Welcome to more playfulness, creativity, and authentic joy.
🌊 Ingredient 2. Emotional Transmutation
Your emotions are sophisticated data, energy carrying wisdom about your values, needs, limits, and desires.
My clients learn exactly how to listen to emotions for the boundaries wisdom they contain, and then how to transmute emotion into informed power.
This is emotional fluency at its highest level — where feeling deeply becomes a portal to connection, confidence, and choice.
🌀 Ingredient 3. Innate Blueprinting
Boundaries are more than behavior — they’re an internal design, expansive and richly supportive.
Through guided process and creative practice, you'll get to discover your very own personalized boundaries blueprint.
Can you imagine how it would feel to have a personalized boundaries blueprint? See boundary lines with clarity (even in complex relationships!), walk in your authenticity, and love others while staying grounded, fully at home in yourself wherever you go.
✨ Ingredient 4. Embodied Expression
What's the point of knowing something if we can't actually do it? To me, boundaries are pointless unless I know how to live them.
Becoming boundaried is about embodiment.
Bringing love into how we speak, move, create, connect, and lead (with presence, joy, and flow that comes from alignment, not effort).
This is how we change our own lives. And it's bigger than that.
This is also how we change the world.
Living Proof
These are real words from real humans who’ve walked this path — therapists, leaders, healers, helpers, and other deeply compassionate graduates who found their way back to themselves through doing this work.
Begin Your Journey
Every journey starts in its own way.
Some people begin by learning to believe that peace and power are possible for them.
Others know change is possible and are now ready to dive deeper, to work with me more closely to embody their peace and power, to move into the architecture of their true boundaries.
Whichever feels true for you, there’s a way forward (designed to meet you where you are). ❤️
Are you ready?
Brand New Here?
I suggest you start with the (free)
Boundaries Breakthrough Mini-Course.
It’s a gentle, heartfelt introduction designed for compassionate people who want to get better boundaries.
You’ll begin to understand why traditional “boundary tips” don’t work for empathic hearts, and you’ll discover the deeper root of what’s been holding you back — all in just a couple hours. ⬇️
🌿 If You Want to Work More Closely With Molly
Begin Your 30-Day Guided Journey
This guided month (including a 1:1 session with Molly + powerful on-demand video classes and live workshops), is designed to blow your mind and delight your heart.
Through a blend of practical tools, visual frameworks, and guided exploration, you’ll get your very own personalized boundaries blueprint and so much more! ⬇️
A big thank you to the amazing photographer, Jamie Taylor Photography, who captured all of the Alaska photos of me (my ancestral home) and has given me permission to use them here.
All other images on this website are my own hand-drawn cartoons and are subjected to copyright. Unauthorized use without permission is prohibited under copyright law.
